Family Philanthropic Planning

Your values, out loud.

Every card in this deck is a value: a word for what matters enough to steer by. Sort them, narrow them to five, and defend the one that matters most.

There aren't any right answers, and nobody's grading this. The only wrong move is picking the word you think you're supposed to pick. Pick the ones that are actually true, even the ones that surprise you.

Your answers stay private until your facilitator shares the group results.

Values, Out Loud

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Before you begin

Here's how this works

You'll sort the deck three times. It takes about 10 minutes, and the last step is the part people remember.

1
Sort. Go through all 36 cards, one at a time, and put each in a pile: Core to me, Matters, or Not mine. If the word you live by isn't in the deck, you'll get a chance to add it.
2
Narrow. Take your Core pile and narrow it down to five. If you're stuck between two cards, ask yourself: which one has actually cost me something?
3
Defend. Pick the one value you'd defend when it costs you money, time, or comfort, and say why in your words.
Your answers are private until your facilitator triggers the group results. You'll see your own five and your defended value at the end.
Card 1 of 36
Core to me: 0 Matters: 0 Not mine: 0

After the cards — Add your own

Is a value missing?

If the word you live by isn't in the deck, add it here. It counts the same as the printed cards. You can add up to 4.

One word or a short phrase, in your words. It's saved word for word.

Step 2 of 3 — Narrow to five

Your Core pile

Tap cards to pick your five. The order you tap them in is the order they're saved in. Tap a picked card again to remove it.

0 of 5 picked

Step 3 of 3 — Defend one

The one you'd defend

Pick one of your five, then say why. That story is the whole point of the deck.

0 / 500

You're in.

Your values are saved. Here's your five, in your order.

Your top five

    Submitted so far

    Your Family's Values

    Here's where your family lines up, and where it splits.

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    How this works

    You'll see 36 value cards, one at a time. For each one, tap Core to me, Matters, or Not mine. Go with your first instinct.

    After the cards, you can add a value of your own if the word you live by isn't in the deck. Then you'll narrow your Core pile down to five.

    Last, you'll pick the one value you'd defend when it costs you something, and say why in your own words.

    There are no right answers. Your facilitator will share the group results once everyone has submitted.